Phew, the first 24 hours are in the books! It has had it's crazy moments already of course but we are loving every minute! As always, we'll tell our stories through picture and captions!
We hadn't seen Ava in a whole week so we were extra excited to see her on this day. The staff there told us how much she missed us and how glad she would be to have us back. When they brought her down to us, she ran down the hall. Of course I couldn't wait to hug her so I start running towards her as well. She greeted us both with that beautiful smile and lots of hugs. We immediately changed her and started saying our goodbyes.
The moment we left, there was a new adoptive family from Canada coming for their first visit. The director and other staff were occupied with meeting them so we pretty much signed the book, and left! Ava waved goodbye to the orphange and got some big kisses from people there who will miss her very much.
Sweet pictures but a very un-sweet event was about to occur. Ava began looking car sick just about 10 minutes into our drive. We have mentioned before that the drive out to the village is brutal. Many bumps! I thought she was car sick but we had our translator ask her in Russian and she said no. But, she was wrong I guess b/c she vomited all over the car :-( Poor girl. We pulled over and cleaned up the best we could. She was the only one in the car who was all smiles and giggles. She must have felt much better while we were all feeling a little worse. So much for the thank you speech I had planned for our translator and driver...we rushed out of the car and couldn't even give hugs goodbye as we were covered in you know what :-/
So, as you can imagine, the bath was the first on the list of things to do when we got to the apartment. Again, all my plans of slowly introducing Ava to each room in the apartment went completely out the window. She was thrown into the tub and scrubed! Thankfully, she is such a trouper and just loved playing in the tub.
Ahh, all clean! Ava explored the new place with a smile! She danced through the rooms and pointed with excitment at all the things around the apartment that she recognized as her own.
She didn't waist much time before she broke into some toys!
The kitchen is by far her favorite room in the house. She loves watching Daddy cook and she waits so patiently for her meal to be ready.
The washing machine was also quite fascinating!
Already feeling right at home.
She didn't feel up for taking her afternoon nap which is to be expected...so many new things to see and do. By early in the evening she was beginning to get sleepy though.
We took a second bath, purely to establish routine, not to wash, and then changed into our PJs.
We went into the bedroom and got a few (by a few I mean almost all) of the books off the shelf. She did a good job of staying in her room. She too about two hours to fall aleep but eventually she drifted off. James and I were so tired b/c of the jet lag and all the events of the day but it just didn't fall right to sleep! I was so worried she would need us and we wouldn't wake up. Exhaustion took over and we did fall asleep...thankfully she slept through the night and so did we :-) In the morning we woke up to a smiley face!
This picture is for Peggy, Jan and Casper. Ava says thank you for helping us get our visas and getting us safely back to her. She also says that she loves Belgium already and can't wait to visit with us next time.
It was a nice day today so we took a little stroll outside. Look at her strutting her stuff!
Ugh, these playgrounds would never be exceptable by American standards but it's all we've got. Ava didn't seem to mind the squecky sound or icy puddle right beneath her.
With the warm weather, our apartment is a furnace. Here Ava is helping Dada take the tape off all the windows (which we originally used to keep the cold air out, but now we welcome it!).
This is where we sit to watch Daddy cook. Ava helped stir the soup today for lunch.
Overall, we are all doing very well considering. Ava is doing amazingly well...no breakdowns, no visable anxiety. It is strange being thrown into this parenting thing with a four year old. Usually parents can grown and learn with their children but we haven't had that chance. Since I don't have my own mommy here in Kaz to answer my questions, I have been calling Belinda a few times a day to ask silly questions...are we feeding her too much? Too little? How often should I wash her hair? etc. We're figuring it out :-)
Ava's new birth certificate and adoption certificate are in already! We're currently working on her passport (and by we I mean our faithful coordinator, Sveta). Paper work should be complete by Wednesday or Thursday of next week. Then it's off to the American Embassy for two business days before heading home! Can't wait.
We want to thank everyone at home who has graciously donated funds to help with our adoption. We couldn't finish it out without you. We are humbled by your gifts and couldn't thank you enough for helping in our time of need. We also want to thank our friends Peggy, Jan & Casper who took us in for the week, fed us, drove us everywhere and only asked for our friendship in return. Also a big thanks to Chantal, Frank & Emile who drove us to the Kaz embassy in Belgium twice and treated us to the real Belgium waffle.
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Wow!!! These pictures are sooo fantastic! All day yesterday we were refreshing FB and blog pages looking for the happy posts.
So here we are. The entire gang is now parenting beautiful Kazakh babies! As adoptive parents we seem to live through all of these important steps in similar fashion. I remember those questions about when to sleep/eat/wash - both for the baby as well as for ourselves .. ;-) - vividly!
Enjoy these first days together. You will never ever forget them.
Big hugs,
Emile, Frank & Chantal aka 'the Antwerp gang'
Crying tears of happiness seeing Ava in her Belgian clothes !! Thank you so much for this surprise !!! It looks like she is finding her way into her new familylife very well. Congrats, Ava ! And of course congrats mommy and daddy for being such amazing parents for her.
Jan, Peggy and Casper.
What an amazing first day - In tears of joy for all of you! Welcome to official parenthood - at least the 24 hour a day kind!
I love you all, so proud of your determination and your continued faith.
Can't wait to have you home so I can give you all - especially AVA a ton of big squeezes!
It is so wonderful to see how comfortable Ava is with her forever parents and how comfortable you are with her! You are finally home! We are so excited for Ava to meet us, Zoe, Jakie, and the whole family! (Very slowly though) Love you three and can't wait to see you next week.
xoxox Mimi
I love every single one of those pictures! She is settling in so well. So SO happy for you all! Can't wait to see you! The time is coming soon!
I couldn't be happier for your family! Glad Ava is settling in so well too!
oh she looks so good and so cozy too, what a great mama and papa, wow.... love you, aunt kristie
I can't believe it is finally at the end of this incredibly long journey! God has clearly been your strength through it all and very soon you will be bringing little Ava D home! I can't begin to express how excited I am for you both!! YAY!
So so so happy to see all the great pics - what a beautiful family!! I am so overjoyed that you are all together officially now and forever! Have I told you how much it kills me that I can't greet you guys when you come home? I need to plan my trip out there asap.
ahhh, love you all!
Congratulations you three! We are so happy your Forever Family is all together at last.
I remember those early days with Ryan. We were so baffled about his feeding & sleeping schedules. It all worked out and then it was time to head back to Canada, where it started all over again.
All the best,
Lyle, Darcy & Ryan
p.s. March 30th is a special day for us too. It was Ryan's Gotcha Day :)
I too love all these pictures! It really shows you how enjoyable the simple things in life are! And don't worry I am not sure any of us really know all the right answers to the simple questions-i say whatever works for you guys is the right answer! You guys are doing wonderfully!
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